DISCLAIMER: This isn’t about any moderator decision directly regarding me (I don’t think I was ever subject to a direct moderator decision, or if I was, I forgot :-)
As for the title, I’d like to know if it’s possible to talk to a specific moderator directly and preferably in private. This would be a short and calm discussion, as you could expect of someone who is a “third party”.
PS the subject of said decision didn’t contact me to ask me to talk to the moderator in her/his place, of course. I would have never accepted to do something like that.